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Stephen Asher Totten, 74

Born Monday, November 4, 1946

Died Monday, April 19, 2021

Stephen Asher Totten, 74, of Muskogee, Oklahoma passed away on Monday, April 19, 2021 with his family by his side. He was born on November 4, 1946 to Pearle Asher Totten and Marjorie Ellen (Bettes) Totten in Kansas City, Missouri. Steve graduated from Shawnee Mission West High School of Shawnee Mission, Kansas with the class of 1964. Steve served in the United States Marine Corps from 1966-1968 during the Vietnam War and received an honorable discharge.
Steve married the love of his life, Linda Ann Conard, on December 8, 1981 in Tulsa, Oklahoma. They shared over 39 years of a happy life and marriage together.
Steve was a steelworker for BS&B Safety Systems for many years until his retirement in 2015. He was a hard worker and made sure his family was taken care of. Steve loved his family very much and enjoyed spending as much time as possible with them. He will be missed by everyone who knew and loved him.
Steve was preceded in death by his parents, Pearle Asher Totten and Marjorie Ellen (Bettes) Totten.
He is survived by his loving wife, Linda Ann Totten of the home; his children, Holly Nicole (Totten) Easley of Tulsa, OK, and Jessica Ann (Totten) Bacon and husband Justin of Muskogee, OK; grandchildren, Fallon Elizabeth Carey of Minneapolis, MN, Caitlyn Nicole Daniel and husband Trent of Fayetteville, AR, Ryleigh Ann Bacon, Raif Wayne Bacon, and Rhyan Asher Bacon all of Muskogee, OK; sister, Deborah Smith and husband John of Muskogee, OK; sister-in-law, Jan Lee Jones of Muskogee, OK; and several nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.
A celebration of Steve’s life will be 11AM, Thursday, April 22, 2021 at Fort Gibson National Cemetery with Rev. Donnie Echols officiating.
Funeral services are under the direction of Cornerstone Funeral Home, 1830 N. York Street, Muskogee, OK. Condolences may be made to the family online at

Cornerstone Funeral Home and Crematory